You must be convinced that you need God’s wisdom from above, Jas 3:13-18.
You must be convinced that God wants to give you wisdom, Jas 1:5.
God is not as impressed with our begging as he is with our believing.
In 1 Ki 3, concerning Solomon’s wisdom, we notice:
Solomon had the right assessment of himself, v.6-7
Solomon had the right assessment of God’s people, v.8
Solomon had the right assessment of God’s wisdom and understanding, v.9
Solomon had the right assessment of the facts, v.16-27
People in the pew are looking for preachers in the pulpit with some sense.